Monday, October 22, 2007

After SA2




Finally, I completed all my marking and keying in of marks last Friday afternoon, just before 2pm. It was such a huge relief, like a big burden was removed from my shoulders. I was so tensed in the staff room marking my remaining class test papers that even my surrounding colleagues could feel the immense (great) stress. Anyway, thank you God for giving me the strength and perseverance to accomplish all my work! Thank you, Ms Jow, for tolerating my stern face and sending me caring sms, reminding me to take care of myself. I really appreciate it!

Today, all teachers attended the year-end promotion meeting to discuss who should be retained, laterally transferred or advanced. Of course, I won't write about the details here. This year, there is one pupil retained at 3N in my class. I hope he won't sink into despair forever but instead take this lesson as a wake-up call, realign his priorities in his teenage life and reduce or if possible totally eliminate all negative 'commitments' outside school. Don't do things to destroy your youth and your future!

Overall, I'm heartened that there are quite a number of pupils in my class who really make miraculous improvement in their performance, especially for Mathematics. Their marks for all subjects in this semester show a total increase of as high as over 60 marks. (They are Jasmeet, Teck Siang, Danial, Danyal, Maisurah, Eileen, Nadhirah, Nabiha and Nabil.) To top it all, this semester, Ong Teck Siang has scored an aggregate of 5 points for his best three subjects and he passed English as well. This means that if he maintains this standard or produces better results at next year's GCE 'N' Level examinations, he will have no problem moving up to sec 5. CONGRATULATIONS! KEEP IT UP!




Friday, October 12, 2007

苦恋


你说你感到万分沮丧,甚至开始怀疑人生?-《梦醒时分》的歌词

这两句话正是我的朋友此时心情的真实写照。她正在暗恋中。她常跟我诉苦说感觉自己像个黑市情人一样,偷偷摸摸的,完全没有尊颜。她心仪的对象虽然时常鼓励她振作并要满怀希望地生活下去,但有时却在她面前摆出一副严肃的样子,也从来没有叫过她的名字,更很少主动跟她搭讪。反而,他却经常主动和别的女人聊天,也很亲切地以她们的名字称呼她们。我的朋友看到这些场面时,也只能默默地忍受下来,不能吭声,把所有郁闷累积在心中,还要装作若无其事一样。其实,她不要求太多,只希望他能正视瞧她一眼,呼唤她的名字,与她搭讪,就好像他跟其他女人大大方方地谈天一样。难道连这点他也做不到吗?

我再也不知道该怎样安慰她了... ...

Friday, October 5, 2007

忍一时风平浪静,退一步海阔天空



所谓“经一事,长一智”,那天在图书馆所发生的事真的让我彻底明白“忍一时风平浪静,退一步海阔天空”的真正意义。


我正在图书馆教两位学生英文,却被一位‘女士’指责道:“如果你们要讲话,请到咖啡厅去。”我心想谁不知道咖啡厅里好说话,但需要花钱买那里的东西吃,人家才给你坐嘛!我自问我们说话的声量又不大,若真的干扰到别人的话,早就被人讲了!因此,我没向她道歉,也没离开座位,继续压低声音教我的学生。我只是提醒学生甲说话小声点吧了!


后来,学生甲的一大群朋友来到图书馆。学生甲当然把刚才被骂的那件事告诉他的朋友。学生乙听了,有点愤愤不平地问是哪一位。这下遭了,那位‘女士’听到他们之间的谈话,开始以不悦的语气回应我们,还问我的学生是从哪个学校来的。双方差点要吵了起来。我赶紧把那一大群学生赶走,只让一位学生留在图书馆里面等我。


回到家时,自我反省了一阵子,发现除了我的学生的语气有待改善之外,其实我也有错。那名‘女士’连一点杂声都不能忍受,分明是一个小人嘛!遇到这种小人,我应该立刻退避三舍,但我却不甘愿离开原位,不甘心让她称心如意。我只是默默地忍受着那名‘女士’,而没有做到“退一步”的境界,结果就差一点造成一场大风波。顿时,我了解到保持沉默来息事宁人是不够的,有时你必须进一步舍弃自己,谦卑自己,真正做到退让的阶段,以换取和平。身为老师的我更应该在这方面多多努力。